When I see India from States....

Today When I am far from my country I can now differentiate and find the major difference by my point of view between the two. I have not been any other country except America so here's my big big differences in these two countries only...

Tourism or more challenging n beautiful tourism I feel is in India only... I went to visit number of places in America, I found everything same except that place i.e same type of people, same food - pizza burger everywhere ;) same language,if you know English you can anywhere BUT in India to visit one state from another make you feel as if you are in another country... difference in culture,language, customs will definite make you to explore more about the place and nearby..

Weather: It's either toooo cold here or too hot.. greenery is everywhere but that smell of wet mud of India is no where.. If you wake up early morning too you will not find cold wind which travels in India even in morning of summers too.. I am in my house remain surrounded with trees and greenery all around but still that cool breeze never touched my nose and made me to take deep breathe.

These were the most likely n lovely points I could for my India.... and ofcourse there's are bads too I can see from here.. first thing is ofcourse it's population and no proper education. I am not talking about Engineering or MBBS degrees. These degrees are quite easy get these days but the education of basic understanding, morals, humanity, trueness is really missing.

Honesty: In America, the best thing is you can trust on what and whom you are dealing with.People here themselves afraid before doing any wrong act to anything around either person or thing.

Driving Rules: Oh God,It's really amazing.. . I am sure most of the people in India die every year because of their rash driving and don't follow rules themselves but here in US every single person who want to drive will have to give real driving/road test, in which he will have to pass else no License, unlike India anyone can take license without even appearing in front of license giver. Rules are just awesome(pedestrian always comes first) n you know all Indians scare a lot while driving here..he he ;)

Cleanliness: YES, everybody knows it n it's really true and people do take care of it a lot............ Government has strict rule to keep the country clean.I hope Indians can understand to keep this country clean as they keep their home...

I think honesty and driving habits can be develop in India, only if people educate themselves and their children about basic ethics on road, for country, it's assets, for each other BUT the diversity in Indian cultures,it's beauty in mountains,valleys with that sweet fragrance blows in morning with wind alongwith the sound of those birds... I think can never come to United States.........

I hope some day India can overcome where it lacks behind...........

Dependency of an Independent WomenToday I found me in a position to write on this topic as now I have faced both the situation in my life.Yes,when it comes the dependency of a women who used to remain Independent sometime back, the difference in her life can be easily seen.. As I am already facing such situation, I have explored few points on this topic and in my opinion I found difference in her life by following ways..

Independent women:Wake up in morning and after done with all home stuff,get ready to indulge into outside world of learning and gaining knowledge.
Dependent Women:Wake up but for just cooking food on stove and say byee with a sweet smile to her partner....;)

Ind Women: Daily get a chance to see herself in a mirror closely and don't forget to fill her eyes either by 'Kajal' or smile.
Dep women: Eyes fill up with burner fumes for sure.;)

Ind Women: At work-she make good friends,communicate to people who mostly increase her knowledge of her area of interest and her improvement Area.
Dep Women: She also makes friends and communicate to people but knowledge she gains is about 'how to make Shahi Paneer and Dhokla at home?' ;)

Ind Women: At work, for sometime she just live new and different life, far from gossips about relative's good or bad.
Dep Women: Definitely get bores with such gossips.What's going hot out there.someone please tell me,question remain deep inside heart somewhere;)

Ind women: Major thing,Freedom of living life by her own ways, spend money freely or restrictively but by her own wish. At least she don't need to give any explanations to anyone.
Dep Women: Whether needed or not, feels restricted herself somewhere. How good the person who is fulfilling all her needs but somewhere she finds an empty the place for work in her life and want fulfill her wishes independently as before:):)

I believe, all stuff which dependent women do, an Independent women also do but the sense of being herself just gets complete if she is working too. Independent the word itself says, In+Dependent, So why not the Women should remain Independent and complete herself.

All the best for all Women who got dependent for some reason and have same feelings. I wish them to get back to work soon.

Cheers:)

"DISTANCE in 'love" in DISTANCE'
After so long,I am again back to my blog,ya I am married now and life has been added with new challenges and discoveries now. For me it started somewhat differently,Somehow We have a distance of miles just after marriage.This distance of miles actually gave me an thought to put on my blog this time :)

Usually,When we get apart from our love, the distance works in two ways.It can either increase the love towards your partner or can decrease as well. Inspite of being so far from each other If you could fill the heart and mind of your partner with full of trust with love and feelings of missing each other, I think this distance can be a discovery of new love.. On the other hand if you don't communicate with each other properly or you forget to give the feeling of neediness of each other, this same distance can create the communication gap and decreases the existing love too.

It's upon us how we deal with the situations, with my experience I would just say If you walk together-hold the hand with full dedication & trust as well as If you talk with each other,either less or more- but do it with full dedication &. The single "Hi" can either shorten the distance or may increase it,thing that matters is how lovingly it has been communicated ;)

Well, I welcome this new year in my new Life, with full of hopes and smile towards it. I hope I will with my love soon for step-in to this new year for facing the life together... :)

"Happy New Year'2010" to all of you to who shares my feeling via this blog :)

Nayii Rahein...
It has been months I got engaged with the person I never knew before and few days are left in I will be married, but this time I know much about him and am happy for my marriage and ready too.;)

In one of my previous blog where I have mentioned how worry I used to get when anybody starts talking to me about marriage n all.But for this person I don't know how all things got set itself that I couldn't back out:). Now,I really believe that marriages are made in heaven.:) .And yes,Now I am happy and contented too with what God has gifted me.

Inspite of having this nice courtship period, when I look and observe our new phase of life which is yet to start, make my feeling mixed about it. Sometimes.. I feel happy for this new phase of life considering it will be cool & rosy all the time sometimes I get worry about the new challenges and responsibilities that will come across to me. I will have to follow those whether I want to or not. It's really double-faced phase of life.Isn't??

These days when I see new couples around me, they seems happiest as if they have never been so happy before. I also looked at the old couples with their childs. In both the case I try to find me but no.. I don't want to be any of that kind. In first case it seems like you are over reacting on what you got but actually there's nothing new to the world and in other case I seems like you even don't know how to keep that simple smile daily which sometimes back, used to made someone's day brighter.. both expressions give me false image of life after marriage.. n If you look at the lady after the years of marriage she doesn't seems graceful or relaxed now.

I am understanding the truth of life, and I am ready to face it but Is this marriage that heavy that we don't carry ourself the way we want, the way we want to laugh, the way we want to talk. I am learning from these faces how can I improve such faces for me in future. Let's see how it goes.;)

Control Population and Education

This blog is an emergence of thought raised in my mind today morning while traveling in the train, overcrowded with peoples. When the train arrived at station, peoples around me rushed for catching train. To be in QUEUE.. ah!! with NO sense of this, they were also not taking care of each other whether there is any small child, lady carrying a child or any older people. Everybody was just wanted to get inside the train by hook or crook. All were pushing irregularly to person in front of him/her. As a result of this, one family have lost two of their children too at the station. I don't know how many people who already have been inside the train had this sense or not, that for whom catching train was important first or If we all have been in queue then it may has been more easy to be inside train.

I was seeing every other person educated, if not educated then mature, if not mature then also there are basic ethics which we all keep deep inside of us. I don't understand when and where these ethics comes out of them, Is in Home only??OR Is this earth not their home??

This scene of train made me to realize that If there's anything in the country which needs a great lookafter is controlling population first then controlling Education Ofcourse.. Both the things for our country, for everyone, for everything around on earth. I wish, If we and our Government can do something for controlling population the way it should lessen, and then control Education the way it should increase among peoples for making them civilized in any situation.

I talked about the scene of train I faced in the morning but when I broaden my view how people travel in public transports, deals with unknown peoples.. really made my view stronger. I don't know when we will see such a change but Can we try to do something about it???

User-Friendly Interface...of Human

Confused na.. Ok, think of any product we choose for buying from market.What thing attracts us a lot.. I know most common answer will be.. it's looks,it easy functionality.. i.e User-friendly interface. I think, this is a great reason behind liking and addiction for any particular product in the market..

But how about HUMANS?? for a sec..just imagine any person, you feel great about whom because he is full of power,knowledge but very simple and friendly..Hows it?? The feeling you will get this time is for what, my this writeup is all about.. :)

Only few days before.. I realized,it's actually true for the peoples even. Any person who is having extreme power, money, knowledge but keeps strict attitude too, we hesitate or sometimes don't like to talk to him or not even try to praise him because we always like the peoples who not only knows, how to fly in the sky but also understand how to walk on the Earth.

I am remembering, how in school n college, I used to scared of, for asking questions to strict teachers.. oh God!! even I remember, when I have started the career.. that first year of career you just come out of school and every other colleague looks like very intelligent enough to make you feel.. mmmm. There you can only increase your knowledge if you find someone very knowledgeable but friendly too, to whom you can ask anything without any hesitation..isn't?? :)

..that User-friendly interface(interior - face), is always been appreciated. I always feel lucky when I find someone with this feature. What do you say...?? :)

FIRST IMPRESSION is the last impression... Is it so??

Phrase, we all must have heard and speak lot of time. I too, was used to use it as a phrase only BUT one of sudden it became a question for me, a time before. I had no answer of this question that time but today, I personally modified it for myself and I feel you will also be agree.

As my favorite pastime is observing people, during this process of juggling ;-) I realized that first impression remains true(as of first time), only with the people you meet first and last time or very few times.. But with the people you interact daily or those who shares things in life with you, it changes to sometime to very good and sometimes.... :)

And, when you finally get apart, the feeling we keep at that very moment, is what We always discuss with other about that particular person in future. Isn't??

So, I modified the phrase like: FIRST IMPRESSION is the last impression,only for the people we meet first and last time though it can be long lasting.. :)

Priority in life... What should be But??
When I was a kid, like other girls I was also fond of marriages, I also liked to be in Leghnga, chunri n all or say, then I was also eager for marriage with a handsome guy in the world;) But when the time has come in front of me to fulfill all such dreams. I am now scaring of with the marriage.. I don't know,Why??

My Parents are selecting the best person for me on earth..n here I am not even able to think about it. As I feel, it's now not my priority in life. It's like, when you get the things in life you wanted, you start refraining from those things. Something like this I am doing.. just trying to pass away most of the time I can, without all this.What else I can do??

Liking, not liking is not my problem. But the correct time is still to come.. that am not able to tell anybody who is started to look forward for my marriage.. is a big problem:)

Writing this in blog is just want to have a feedback on how people like me face such situations in life.. I feel there will be so many people here who must have face this in his or her life.isn't?? :)

Thanks for reading it and if you have time.. Please show me the way with your comments!!

"SISTERHOOD.." Let's try to Spread it!!

Seeing and hearing the slogans for Brotherhood makes me to feel, why people don't talk about SISTERHOOD,why people don't spread sisterhood in heart of every Women here, which I feel is the most important key for the success of our country.

Sisterhood doesn't require any particular community to promote and support. It's deep there inside the heart of every women that need to come up and become visible for every other around her.

I always hear one women is criticizing the other women either being jealous or just like that.. BUT why?? Where what I feel is, only one Women can understand the feelings, emotions, situations, pains of other women. The pain of being a girl from childhood, the pain of facing social sarcasm in young age, pain of every month, the pain of nine months, pain during care of children and then old age experience.. In all these situations when a women who should understand the other one, she starts criticizing instead of helping. This time it becomes so painful to bear the pain itself...isn't??? Bonding between Mother and daughter, love and sharing of things between sisters are the BEST examples of sisterhood.. These relations always remain live and caring, mutually understandable, lovely.. so pure for sure always:) Where we don't see such bonding between Father and son or between brothers. Isn't??

Unless of preserving sisterhood, I see women are spoiling it, more smartness comes by keeping mediator (mostly boys;)) to criticize the other girl. I really feel like ashamed for this. I can't say anything about it to them but I can write at least..

We generally see Men comes as an obstacles in front of girl's success but nowadays many educated and mature men are changing their view regarding this then why don't the women shows maturity and love by just following the SISTERHOOD... :)

at last I will end up with.. "A sister is a gift to the heart, a friend to the spirit, a golden thread to the meaning of life." -- Isadora James

If have more time then take a look at:http://moeta.blogspot.com/2007/09/things-women-do-to-each-other.html

... JUST SEE YOU
A poem generated in my mind as per the event in Office.. I didn't know it before that I can write something like this too..:). but I don know how my pen moved on paper for throwing out such a words on it.Well, have a look ;)

"Feelings in heart, somewhere lies..
How can I tell You?
Lie on mouth I always find
because I truly love You..
True my Love
Is really for You
Reality of my Life
I can't say this to You
I am Just Saying this,
forget me not
because, I forget all my pain
when I just see YOU!

Are stars really so crazy??
Jenna, an Astrologer, don't know when I came in contact of her, during net surfing..Now I like her mails for that I never reply. She says about my important transit of my life..which I should not let pass just like that..I should do something which she only can tell me.. ONLY if I will pay her and allow her to continue study about my stars

That's a Astrologer.. who will tell me everything of my life when I will pay her.. so I was thinking what should I do.. Should I pay her and let her read me.. OR do I not know myself?? where I believe that whatever will be the phase of life I will try to face that myself happily

Is really stars so crazy.. that too for this period only. Oh.. can't grasp this;) For a girl, who believes in herself.. then whatever will be the phase of stars I am ready for that.

I Welcome new Stars with the New year. I hope for the best and don't care about the rest;)

Enjoy!! And Happy New year for all known and unknown visitors.

If u asked Question?? here's a Answer

Ques was,if some one who is your friend ..try to tell that somewhere u r going wrong ...but u think u r on right track ...what will be your view at this situation

Vikas via orkut


Let's take it other way..me is trying with my friend to bring him on right track.As I don know about others na.so what will I do??

First of all, if he is my good friend then only he will listen me else nobody is having time hear anyone man.Anyhow time make them to listen to their own conscience;-)Well if listens..why he/she will follow me..definitely i should also clear out all perspective of his/her step before giving any suggestion.Then I would like to suggest in his/her own manner either directly or indirectly.Any real life example helps very much in this.. i always try this.:)

n man my best suggestion is say only once and that too if someone asks else nowadays it keeps no value to others.If he had to understand he will follow u .Everybody know what's wrong or what's not?? your work is to just realize it to him that too if u feel so.

This is a not standard answer its only my way for my friends and i feel relax by follow this.So if u want it can be Answer of your Question.

All the best:)

All are happy now..then why shouldn't I..
Oh Yeah,I am really happy today as the things came to me in previous month had changed my life totally.My trust in God became 'ekdum pukka';) The Things that made me to feel new,nice and different.All of above that's made my Parents,bros(bhai bole to) feel proud n happy.

ya, My result with good percentage after a gr8 mistake of university,New Career with MNC after working for a small organization,New Technology after working with basic Technology.All seems cool..

Actually the thing is, whatever we technical people understand that where should we work to make our career or image in this world using our talents.It's quite tough for non technical one to understand it.And it's become paining if these peoples are our loved ones,where they just want our comfort rather than working n earning.

That's a thing I also faced when I started my Career with a small organization.I was told to not to carry on like this BUT don know why I never felt if I were going in wrong direction.I tried to hold them their breath and tried to pass the time.

God really helped me in this.No one have a need to hold the breath now as I am in new world with the Reputed Organization,nice peoples,good culture,fun,work.YES,everything is like I were dreaming of.. that too so easily that again a surprise to me actually.

Now, I have to just soaring heights.Oh yeah..If Everything is making me this much happy then Why shouldn't I:)

Thanks a Lot God....

Sometimes I get Satisfy and sometimes...
Satisfaction, a word very common in our talks of regarding life.If there’s any place where it’s not at all common is REAL LIFE..

Since so many days this word was echoing in my mind. Asking same question U r satisfy na Dear????? hmm then I have analyzed myself if am below my satisfaction level. But there’s nothing like this. Then What was the thing making me dissatisfy.

Today it seems like I got the reason behind this. Let u know..
I think when sometimes I get satisfy with my work and follow myself then there’s somebody else which is actually don’t like that way. I know we all think differently but as we people are connected with the links of love, care, affection. These threads makes us to think about each other.

Sometimes, I think let the people say what they wish to, time will reply to them. But How can I ignore the ones I love most, How can I move further without making them relax.. I try to balance the situation but sometime it not so easy which ultimately diverts me from your path and I become dissatisfy.

But guys,Time is a real healer of every wound. Let it pass and keep quiet. Today it’s cool out here. I am really happy n ready for welcoming another NEW YEAR with a reason or meaning of the word of my Life..Satisfaction.

Happy New Year

New beginning….Far from Home

Ya everyday we do something as usual old BUT something definitely NEW.Isnt’t??After 21 years of Life….in the shade of our Parents,..this bird had opened her wings for the new search…that too far from Home.:)

I came to Noida…in a beautiful Home, met with nice peoples and soon I got the good Career making Job. Now it’s 3 months flown away..and it’s looking like life is friends, Office, Projects and DEADLINE.There is no Family becoz here I am far from Home…

Every person on this Earth is a story,an Experience and of course a guide in itself…Me too have faced so many situations where I have guided myself..n got the way,got much Experience by facing such situations…and now have a story for me to tell anyone..:)All becuz I am far from Home

It is a first time I am living out of my Home..ya the Journey from L.K.G to Graduation.. happened in the shade of my Parents..where I never ever felt like if I couldn’t do anything I felt to do.They were and today too are always with me in my any decision… I think the feeling of mutual understanding keeps us near to each other…no matter how far I am far from Home.

Is it wrong to want the finer things in life? Only if it's not at the cost of your inner values.This is the only thing that makes me to feel like….nmhh I am not Far From Home….Thanx to My Parents

WHAT NEXT???? OH GOD! PLEASE STOP THIS…


WTC Attack,Akshardham Attack… Banaras blast…n latest Bombay Bomb-Blast..…Now Wt Next...don u think It’s happening like we usually talk about LATEST CRUSH Now I should talk about LATEST CRASH….
This is really shameful for the mankind.Sometimes,I don't able to think..Is this Religion, People or Situation…which is bringing such kinda disasters on our Earth….???

One day I was reading TOI..there I had read following post in inner voice column....I don know how many of you guys have seen this…but Today I m not able to stop myself to post that here….Every line of this post touched me a lot…it was looking like words from my mouthnhave been printed…Let’s take a look over it.If u didn't read it… then AT LEAST ONCE read it and think about it…

”Should religion break hearts or fill them with love and affection for others?
We seem to have moulded laws only for narrow interests. We use religion to propagate hatred against the very human beings for whom these laws were framed. We manipulate situations. We polarize human sentiments to propagate hatred and divide people. Really, religion seems to be a tool of destruction.

But our own age teaches us wisdom, if we would only learn it. An Englishmen came to Gandhiji and said,” I read the Bhagvad Gita and I liked it.” Gandhiji replied that he liked it, too and read it daily. The man said,” But I found it better than Bible, Gandhiji answered,” But I read the Bible also and I like it too.” The man then said,” I find the Gita is better and want to switch my faith to Hinduism.”

Gandhiji said,” I think you haven’t read the Bible properly. You are not a good Christian, how can you to be a good Hindu? It’s better that you go back and try to be good Christian. The day you do it successfully you will be good human being, too.And that day the religious wall within your heart will begin to shrink and you will not only be a good Christian but also a good Hindu, a good Muslim, and good Jew as well.”

So the difference is only within our heart. Otherwise, we are one species, defined by the common term ”humanity”. The proof of this is the feeling that rises in our heart whenever we find any disaster or calamity has hurt human beings in any part of the world.

We shouldn’t lose our faith in religion. But blind faith is disastrous, so let us try to be rational and not lend our ear to demagogues or religious contractors of any sort. They take us away from faith in God and love for each other to irrational and illogical hatred and make us encroach unjustly on the faith of our fellow human beings. “

<<< FlashBack
So college is over now…n Ricky martin is now an Engineer Ricky Gupta. Ha ha:) I am really not able to realize that college is over now and How these four years have flown away…. Let’s have a flash back to confirm me that ya.. I had fulltoo four years in college.. ;)

During these years as the things came to me… I learned a lot from all that..either it was any person… place or thing… every day of college came with new plannings to me… n gave me lot of things to remember whole life… mastii in class..campus n with friends.. say freely to Teachers about what was in mind..yeah was gr8 to me whatever anybody say anything…

Ya…Appreciation, Love , Respect, care, complements, Crushes and crashes.. n ofCourse Comments, I had all becuz of this college… and I am feeling everything by Heart..

hmmm I met almost all kinda person….as I let u know my favorite pastime is observing peoples… so the people who had dual nature… friends who said they r friends but not they were.. peoples who were not in the list of friens but was always ready to help and cared a lot....… persons who made me to realized me who I m… n ya I also met lot of guls who used to waste their time in just commenting…)

U know,I got one solution for it.If somebody is cutting comments over you, try to explore him/her n you too to know why it’s happening..You can take the help of your elder ones for it…Then if you find yourself wrong try to improve yourself but when you could find that it was just for making you down.Ignore it….Just do your work..:)

Hey what else I saw is Hostlers day-scholars communication Gap… I tried lot to fill it up..but it must be from both the sides.During this whole time great thing was every person had lots of Good and Bad things in himself still if i have counted both individually and you know I found the score of good habits was high.Try it!!!;) Those good thing always gave me something to learn. REALLY..

Lot of unforgettable Events..First day of College,Freshers,Cultural fests, Alumni, president visit, Rukhsat the Farewell. Hmmm....

Hey!! knock knock… now come in true world.Now it’s True that this is all not with me… but a here’s a long way to go… with the memories of that beautiful days….

Will miss you HCST…..!!!

Shhhhh….Keep Silence

I always used to think that how would people hear me….where in this fast moving life even when, they don’t have time to hear themselves. Everybody is flowing with the flow of this river to which I do call LIFE…

After a long time …I do realize that people don’t want to hear not only noise but also voice… the only thing they can hear and feel is the SILENCE….i realized that when you eagerly wants to say or talk to anybody, he will not hear you BUT when you stop this…he suddenly able to understand what you even think…:)
I know it’s a human nature…but d thing is….What made them to hear,,,even when we didn speak…I think it was the SILENCE of our soul…

Same I see with the books…it doesn’t speak but remains quiet..still we learn a lot from them…whole semester teacher keeps teaching us with the book but we don’t able to understand…but at d exams time same book becomes a ladder of success…dis time nobody teaches us…but we understand a lot..:) n Ya great example is GOD…the onlii thing on earth over which everybody believes…WHY????

Becuz…he keeps SILENCE…. (What I feel).

Why we don hear our parents n teachers..even when we say they r a form of GOD…If God would be here to tell us about does and don’ts… I think most of us would say….Pleeesss..
But we study their books and get inspired…again I think dis is all becuz of Silence….

Hey don think I m so philosophical...but this a emergence of…When I keep silence… Otherwiiise my friend says I speak n of course Njoy a lot…;)

But, Today I m feeling like,this Dia is my SILENCE.…shhhhh

Me with my Blog..DREAM
Finally I am here with my Dream...so before sharing my further views..,little bit brittle talks...n experiences here...I would like to tell How i ve reached here...

hmmm..I got it's idea just by chance...i was on orkut (might ve heard about it...u know it's getting so popular...at least in our college...everybody anytime..kaha hai..Orkut pe..hehe :))...ya i was sayin that day i was joining a community of my interest..then by chance my mouse moved towards one person's profile..he was really good looking one ;)..so i ve gone through his profile too..there i found such a link...n d concept of Online Diariii.., that's a Blog

That moment gave me another interesting work to do...n then was d second moment in which i ve created my own blog....

ya after creating that i don know wt super duper security password i used... which i forgot myself at the second time when I logged on....;)

so it's recovery trials..then no recovery.. and again new creation...is What my this blog ve faced to make it DREAM cum true...:)