"DISTANCE in 'love" in DISTANCE'
After so long,I am again back to my blog,ya I am married now and life has been added with new challenges and discoveries now. For me it started somewhat differently,Somehow We have a distance of miles just after marriage.This distance of miles actually gave me an thought to put on my blog this time :)

Usually,When we get apart from our love, the distance works in two ways.It can either increase the love towards your partner or can decrease as well. Inspite of being so far from each other If you could fill the heart and mind of your partner with full of trust with love and feelings of missing each other, I think this distance can be a discovery of new love.. On the other hand if you don't communicate with each other properly or you forget to give the feeling of neediness of each other, this same distance can create the communication gap and decreases the existing love too.

It's upon us how we deal with the situations, with my experience I would just say If you walk together-hold the hand with full dedication & trust as well as If you talk with each other,either less or more- but do it with full dedication &. The single "Hi" can either shorten the distance or may increase it,thing that matters is how lovingly it has been communicated ;)

Well, I welcome this new year in my new Life, with full of hopes and smile towards it. I hope I will with my love soon for step-in to this new year for facing the life together... :)

"Happy New Year'2010" to all of you to who shares my feeling via this blog :)

Nayii Rahein...
It has been months I got engaged with the person I never knew before and few days are left in I will be married, but this time I know much about him and am happy for my marriage and ready too.;)

In one of my previous blog where I have mentioned how worry I used to get when anybody starts talking to me about marriage n all.But for this person I don't know how all things got set itself that I couldn't back out:). Now,I really believe that marriages are made in heaven.:) .And yes,Now I am happy and contented too with what God has gifted me.

Inspite of having this nice courtship period, when I look and observe our new phase of life which is yet to start, make my feeling mixed about it. Sometimes.. I feel happy for this new phase of life considering it will be cool & rosy all the time sometimes I get worry about the new challenges and responsibilities that will come across to me. I will have to follow those whether I want to or not. It's really double-faced phase of life.Isn't??

These days when I see new couples around me, they seems happiest as if they have never been so happy before. I also looked at the old couples with their childs. In both the case I try to find me but no.. I don't want to be any of that kind. In first case it seems like you are over reacting on what you got but actually there's nothing new to the world and in other case I seems like you even don't know how to keep that simple smile daily which sometimes back, used to made someone's day brighter.. both expressions give me false image of life after marriage.. n If you look at the lady after the years of marriage she doesn't seems graceful or relaxed now.

I am understanding the truth of life, and I am ready to face it but Is this marriage that heavy that we don't carry ourself the way we want, the way we want to laugh, the way we want to talk. I am learning from these faces how can I improve such faces for me in future. Let's see how it goes.;)

Control Population and Education

This blog is an emergence of thought raised in my mind today morning while traveling in the train, overcrowded with peoples. When the train arrived at station, peoples around me rushed for catching train. To be in QUEUE.. ah!! with NO sense of this, they were also not taking care of each other whether there is any small child, lady carrying a child or any older people. Everybody was just wanted to get inside the train by hook or crook. All were pushing irregularly to person in front of him/her. As a result of this, one family have lost two of their children too at the station. I don't know how many people who already have been inside the train had this sense or not, that for whom catching train was important first or If we all have been in queue then it may has been more easy to be inside train.

I was seeing every other person educated, if not educated then mature, if not mature then also there are basic ethics which we all keep deep inside of us. I don't understand when and where these ethics comes out of them, Is in Home only??OR Is this earth not their home??

This scene of train made me to realize that If there's anything in the country which needs a great lookafter is controlling population first then controlling Education Ofcourse.. Both the things for our country, for everyone, for everything around on earth. I wish, If we and our Government can do something for controlling population the way it should lessen, and then control Education the way it should increase among peoples for making them civilized in any situation.

I talked about the scene of train I faced in the morning but when I broaden my view how people travel in public transports, deals with unknown peoples.. really made my view stronger. I don't know when we will see such a change but Can we try to do something about it???