Thursday, September 23, 2010

When I see India from States....

Today When I am far from my country I can now differentiate and find the major difference by my point of view between the two. I have not been any other country except America so here's my big big differences in these two countries only...

Tourism or more challenging n beautiful tourism I feel is in India only... I went to visit number of places in America, I found everything same except that place i.e same type of people, same food - pizza burger everywhere ;) same language,if you know English you can anywhere BUT in India to visit one state from another make you feel as if you are in another country... difference in culture,language, customs will definite make you to explore more about the place and nearby..

Weather: It's either toooo cold here or too hot.. greenery is everywhere but that smell of wet mud of India is no where.. If you wake up early morning too you will not find cold wind which travels in India even in morning of summers too.. I am in my house remain surrounded with trees and greenery all around but still that cool breeze never touched my nose and made me to take deep breathe.

These were the most likely n lovely points I could for my India.... and ofcourse there's are bads too I can see from here.. first thing is ofcourse it's population and no proper education. I am not talking about Engineering or MBBS degrees. These degrees are quite easy get these days but the education of basic understanding, morals, humanity, trueness is really missing.

Honesty: In America, the best thing is you can trust on what and whom you are dealing with.People here themselves afraid before doing any wrong act to anything around either person or thing.

Driving Rules: Oh God,It's really amazing.. . I am sure most of the people in India die every year because of their rash driving and don't follow rules themselves but here in US every single person who want to drive will have to give real driving/road test, in which he will have to pass else no License, unlike India anyone can take license without even appearing in front of license giver. Rules are just awesome(pedestrian always comes first) n you know all Indians scare a lot while driving here..he he ;)

Cleanliness: YES, everybody knows it n it's really true and people do take care of it a lot............ Government has strict rule to keep the country clean.I hope Indians can understand to keep this country clean as they keep their home...

I think honesty and driving habits can be develop in India, only if people educate themselves and their children about basic ethics on road, for country, it's assets, for each other BUT the diversity in Indian cultures,it's beauty in mountains,valleys with that sweet fragrance blows in morning with wind alongwith the sound of those birds... I think can never come to United States.........

I hope some day India can overcome where it lacks behind...........

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Dependency of an Independent WomenToday I found me in a position to write on this topic as now I have faced both the situation in my life.Yes,when it comes the dependency of a women who used to remain Independent sometime back, the difference in her life can be easily seen.. As I am already facing such situation, I have explored few points on this topic and in my opinion I found difference in her life by following ways..

Independent women:Wake up in morning and after done with all home stuff,get ready to indulge into outside world of learning and gaining knowledge.
Dependent Women:Wake up but for just cooking food on stove and say byee with a sweet smile to her partner....;)

Ind Women: Daily get a chance to see herself in a mirror closely and don't forget to fill her eyes either by 'Kajal' or smile.
Dep women: Eyes fill up with burner fumes for sure.;)

Ind Women: At work-she make good friends,communicate to people who mostly increase her knowledge of her area of interest and her improvement Area.
Dep Women: She also makes friends and communicate to people but knowledge she gains is about 'how to make Shahi Paneer and Dhokla at home?' ;)

Ind Women: At work, for sometime she just live new and different life, far from gossips about relative's good or bad.
Dep Women: Definitely get bores with such gossips.What's going hot out there.someone please tell me,question remain deep inside heart somewhere;)

Ind women: Major thing,Freedom of living life by her own ways, spend money freely or restrictively but by her own wish. At least she don't need to give any explanations to anyone.
Dep Women: Whether needed or not, feels restricted herself somewhere. How good the person who is fulfilling all her needs but somewhere she finds an empty the place for work in her life and want fulfill her wishes independently as before:):)

I believe, all stuff which dependent women do, an Independent women also do but the sense of being herself just gets complete if she is working too. Independent the word itself says, In+Dependent, So why not the Women should remain Independent and complete herself.

All the best for all Women who got dependent for some reason and have same feelings. I wish them to get back to work soon.

Cheers:)