"SISTERHOOD.." Let's try to Spread it!!

Seeing and hearing the slogans for Brotherhood makes me to feel, why people don't talk about SISTERHOOD,why people don't spread sisterhood in heart of every Women here, which I feel is the most important key for the success of our country.

Sisterhood doesn't require any particular community to promote and support. It's deep there inside the heart of every women that need to come up and become visible for every other around her.

I always hear one women is criticizing the other women either being jealous or just like that.. BUT why?? Where what I feel is, only one Women can understand the feelings, emotions, situations, pains of other women. The pain of being a girl from childhood, the pain of facing social sarcasm in young age, pain of every month, the pain of nine months, pain during care of children and then old age experience.. In all these situations when a women who should understand the other one, she starts criticizing instead of helping. This time it becomes so painful to bear the pain itself...isn't??? Bonding between Mother and daughter, love and sharing of things between sisters are the BEST examples of sisterhood.. These relations always remain live and caring, mutually understandable, lovely.. so pure for sure always:) Where we don't see such bonding between Father and son or between brothers. Isn't??

Unless of preserving sisterhood, I see women are spoiling it, more smartness comes by keeping mediator (mostly boys;)) to criticize the other girl. I really feel like ashamed for this. I can't say anything about it to them but I can write at least..

We generally see Men comes as an obstacles in front of girl's success but nowadays many educated and mature men are changing their view regarding this then why don't the women shows maturity and love by just following the SISTERHOOD... :)

at last I will end up with.. "A sister is a gift to the heart, a friend to the spirit, a golden thread to the meaning of life." -- Isadora James

If have more time then take a look at:http://moeta.blogspot.com/2007/09/things-women-do-to-each-other.html

... JUST SEE YOU
A poem generated in my mind as per the event in Office.. I didn't know it before that I can write something like this too..:). but I don know how my pen moved on paper for throwing out such a words on it.Well, have a look ;)

"Feelings in heart, somewhere lies..
How can I tell You?
Lie on mouth I always find
because I truly love You..
True my Love
Is really for You
Reality of my Life
I can't say this to You
I am Just Saying this,
forget me not
because, I forget all my pain
when I just see YOU!

Are stars really so crazy??
Jenna, an Astrologer, don't know when I came in contact of her, during net surfing..Now I like her mails for that I never reply. She says about my important transit of my life..which I should not let pass just like that..I should do something which she only can tell me.. ONLY if I will pay her and allow her to continue study about my stars

That's a Astrologer.. who will tell me everything of my life when I will pay her.. so I was thinking what should I do.. Should I pay her and let her read me.. OR do I not know myself?? where I believe that whatever will be the phase of life I will try to face that myself happily

Is really stars so crazy.. that too for this period only. Oh.. can't grasp this;) For a girl, who believes in herself.. then whatever will be the phase of stars I am ready for that.

I Welcome new Stars with the New year. I hope for the best and don't care about the rest;)

Enjoy!! And Happy New year for all known and unknown visitors.

If u asked Question?? here's a Answer

Ques was,if some one who is your friend ..try to tell that somewhere u r going wrong ...but u think u r on right track ...what will be your view at this situation

Vikas via orkut


Let's take it other way..me is trying with my friend to bring him on right track.As I don know about others na.so what will I do??

First of all, if he is my good friend then only he will listen me else nobody is having time hear anyone man.Anyhow time make them to listen to their own conscience;-)Well if listens..why he/she will follow me..definitely i should also clear out all perspective of his/her step before giving any suggestion.Then I would like to suggest in his/her own manner either directly or indirectly.Any real life example helps very much in this.. i always try this.:)

n man my best suggestion is say only once and that too if someone asks else nowadays it keeps no value to others.If he had to understand he will follow u .Everybody know what's wrong or what's not?? your work is to just realize it to him that too if u feel so.

This is a not standard answer its only my way for my friends and i feel relax by follow this.So if u want it can be Answer of your Question.

All the best:)

All are happy now..then why shouldn't I..
Oh Yeah,I am really happy today as the things came to me in previous month had changed my life totally.My trust in God became 'ekdum pukka';) The Things that made me to feel new,nice and different.All of above that's made my Parents,bros(bhai bole to) feel proud n happy.

ya, My result with good percentage after a gr8 mistake of university,New Career with MNC after working for a small organization,New Technology after working with basic Technology.All seems cool..

Actually the thing is, whatever we technical people understand that where should we work to make our career or image in this world using our talents.It's quite tough for non technical one to understand it.And it's become paining if these peoples are our loved ones,where they just want our comfort rather than working n earning.

That's a thing I also faced when I started my Career with a small organization.I was told to not to carry on like this BUT don know why I never felt if I were going in wrong direction.I tried to hold them their breath and tried to pass the time.

God really helped me in this.No one have a need to hold the breath now as I am in new world with the Reputed Organization,nice peoples,good culture,fun,work.YES,everything is like I were dreaming of.. that too so easily that again a surprise to me actually.

Now, I have to just soaring heights.Oh yeah..If Everything is making me this much happy then Why shouldn't I:)

Thanks a Lot God....

Sometimes I get Satisfy and sometimes...
Satisfaction, a word very common in our talks of regarding life.If there’s any place where it’s not at all common is REAL LIFE..

Since so many days this word was echoing in my mind. Asking same question U r satisfy na Dear????? hmm then I have analyzed myself if am below my satisfaction level. But there’s nothing like this. Then What was the thing making me dissatisfy.

Today it seems like I got the reason behind this. Let u know..
I think when sometimes I get satisfy with my work and follow myself then there’s somebody else which is actually don’t like that way. I know we all think differently but as we people are connected with the links of love, care, affection. These threads makes us to think about each other.

Sometimes, I think let the people say what they wish to, time will reply to them. But How can I ignore the ones I love most, How can I move further without making them relax.. I try to balance the situation but sometime it not so easy which ultimately diverts me from your path and I become dissatisfy.

But guys,Time is a real healer of every wound. Let it pass and keep quiet. Today it’s cool out here. I am really happy n ready for welcoming another NEW YEAR with a reason or meaning of the word of my Life..Satisfaction.

Happy New Year

New beginning….Far from Home

Ya everyday we do something as usual old BUT something definitely NEW.Isnt’t??After 21 years of Life….in the shade of our Parents,..this bird had opened her wings for the new search…that too far from Home.:)

I came to Noida…in a beautiful Home, met with nice peoples and soon I got the good Career making Job. Now it’s 3 months flown away..and it’s looking like life is friends, Office, Projects and DEADLINE.There is no Family becoz here I am far from Home…

Every person on this Earth is a story,an Experience and of course a guide in itself…Me too have faced so many situations where I have guided myself..n got the way,got much Experience by facing such situations…and now have a story for me to tell anyone..:)All becuz I am far from Home

It is a first time I am living out of my Home..ya the Journey from L.K.G to Graduation.. happened in the shade of my Parents..where I never ever felt like if I couldn’t do anything I felt to do.They were and today too are always with me in my any decision… I think the feeling of mutual understanding keeps us near to each other…no matter how far I am far from Home.

Is it wrong to want the finer things in life? Only if it's not at the cost of your inner values.This is the only thing that makes me to feel like….nmhh I am not Far From Home….Thanx to My Parents

WHAT NEXT???? OH GOD! PLEASE STOP THIS…


WTC Attack,Akshardham Attack… Banaras blast…n latest Bombay Bomb-Blast..…Now Wt Next...don u think It’s happening like we usually talk about LATEST CRUSH Now I should talk about LATEST CRASH….
This is really shameful for the mankind.Sometimes,I don't able to think..Is this Religion, People or Situation…which is bringing such kinda disasters on our Earth….???

One day I was reading TOI..there I had read following post in inner voice column....I don know how many of you guys have seen this…but Today I m not able to stop myself to post that here….Every line of this post touched me a lot…it was looking like words from my mouthnhave been printed…Let’s take a look over it.If u didn't read it… then AT LEAST ONCE read it and think about it…

”Should religion break hearts or fill them with love and affection for others?
We seem to have moulded laws only for narrow interests. We use religion to propagate hatred against the very human beings for whom these laws were framed. We manipulate situations. We polarize human sentiments to propagate hatred and divide people. Really, religion seems to be a tool of destruction.

But our own age teaches us wisdom, if we would only learn it. An Englishmen came to Gandhiji and said,” I read the Bhagvad Gita and I liked it.” Gandhiji replied that he liked it, too and read it daily. The man said,” But I found it better than Bible, Gandhiji answered,” But I read the Bible also and I like it too.” The man then said,” I find the Gita is better and want to switch my faith to Hinduism.”

Gandhiji said,” I think you haven’t read the Bible properly. You are not a good Christian, how can you to be a good Hindu? It’s better that you go back and try to be good Christian. The day you do it successfully you will be good human being, too.And that day the religious wall within your heart will begin to shrink and you will not only be a good Christian but also a good Hindu, a good Muslim, and good Jew as well.”

So the difference is only within our heart. Otherwise, we are one species, defined by the common term ”humanity”. The proof of this is the feeling that rises in our heart whenever we find any disaster or calamity has hurt human beings in any part of the world.

We shouldn’t lose our faith in religion. But blind faith is disastrous, so let us try to be rational and not lend our ear to demagogues or religious contractors of any sort. They take us away from faith in God and love for each other to irrational and illogical hatred and make us encroach unjustly on the faith of our fellow human beings. “

<<< FlashBack
So college is over now…n Ricky martin is now an Engineer Ricky Gupta. Ha ha:) I am really not able to realize that college is over now and How these four years have flown away…. Let’s have a flash back to confirm me that ya.. I had fulltoo four years in college.. ;)

During these years as the things came to me… I learned a lot from all that..either it was any person… place or thing… every day of college came with new plannings to me… n gave me lot of things to remember whole life… mastii in class..campus n with friends.. say freely to Teachers about what was in mind..yeah was gr8 to me whatever anybody say anything…

Ya…Appreciation, Love , Respect, care, complements, Crushes and crashes.. n ofCourse Comments, I had all becuz of this college… and I am feeling everything by Heart..

hmmm I met almost all kinda person….as I let u know my favorite pastime is observing peoples… so the people who had dual nature… friends who said they r friends but not they were.. peoples who were not in the list of friens but was always ready to help and cared a lot....… persons who made me to realized me who I m… n ya I also met lot of guls who used to waste their time in just commenting…)

U know,I got one solution for it.If somebody is cutting comments over you, try to explore him/her n you too to know why it’s happening..You can take the help of your elder ones for it…Then if you find yourself wrong try to improve yourself but when you could find that it was just for making you down.Ignore it….Just do your work..:)

Hey what else I saw is Hostlers day-scholars communication Gap… I tried lot to fill it up..but it must be from both the sides.During this whole time great thing was every person had lots of Good and Bad things in himself still if i have counted both individually and you know I found the score of good habits was high.Try it!!!;) Those good thing always gave me something to learn. REALLY..

Lot of unforgettable Events..First day of College,Freshers,Cultural fests, Alumni, president visit, Rukhsat the Farewell. Hmmm....

Hey!! knock knock… now come in true world.Now it’s True that this is all not with me… but a here’s a long way to go… with the memories of that beautiful days….

Will miss you HCST…..!!!

Shhhhh….Keep Silence

I always used to think that how would people hear me….where in this fast moving life even when, they don’t have time to hear themselves. Everybody is flowing with the flow of this river to which I do call LIFE…

After a long time …I do realize that people don’t want to hear not only noise but also voice… the only thing they can hear and feel is the SILENCE….i realized that when you eagerly wants to say or talk to anybody, he will not hear you BUT when you stop this…he suddenly able to understand what you even think…:)
I know it’s a human nature…but d thing is….What made them to hear,,,even when we didn speak…I think it was the SILENCE of our soul…

Same I see with the books…it doesn’t speak but remains quiet..still we learn a lot from them…whole semester teacher keeps teaching us with the book but we don’t able to understand…but at d exams time same book becomes a ladder of success…dis time nobody teaches us…but we understand a lot..:) n Ya great example is GOD…the onlii thing on earth over which everybody believes…WHY????

Becuz…he keeps SILENCE…. (What I feel).

Why we don hear our parents n teachers..even when we say they r a form of GOD…If God would be here to tell us about does and don’ts… I think most of us would say….Pleeesss..
But we study their books and get inspired…again I think dis is all becuz of Silence….

Hey don think I m so philosophical...but this a emergence of…When I keep silence… Otherwiiise my friend says I speak n of course Njoy a lot…;)

But, Today I m feeling like,this Dia is my SILENCE.…shhhhh

Me with my Blog..DREAM
Finally I am here with my Dream...so before sharing my further views..,little bit brittle talks...n experiences here...I would like to tell How i ve reached here...

hmmm..I got it's idea just by chance...i was on orkut (might ve heard about it...u know it's getting so popular...at least in our college...everybody anytime..kaha hai..Orkut pe..hehe :))...ya i was sayin that day i was joining a community of my interest..then by chance my mouse moved towards one person's profile..he was really good looking one ;)..so i ve gone through his profile too..there i found such a link...n d concept of Online Diariii.., that's a Blog

That moment gave me another interesting work to do...n then was d second moment in which i ve created my own blog....

ya after creating that i don know wt super duper security password i used... which i forgot myself at the second time when I logged on....;)

so it's recovery trials..then no recovery.. and again new creation...is What my this blog ve faced to make it DREAM cum true...:)