Break from work, it rejuvenates

Hello All, 

After so long I am back again with a special thought which is obviously arisen when I am on break from my work for few months:)

I feel,in past days/years, I have been so busy with my office and after-office household stuffs that I just left somewhere Me and my Interests or was just living a monotonous life. May be was about to leave behind more... Taking out time for blog writing had also been tough all the time. Actually, I would say I had no time to sit and think silently, differently or pen down the extra thoughts :)

Well, I am loving this break, during this break I have accompanied my husband to United States, and really I am enjoying it. Like a free bird, I have time for myself-hairstyles, cosmetics, manicure , pedicure and more ;) . I have time for my hobbies - handicrafts; I myself amazed with the ideas I am getting in this area and how trash can be treasure I got to know , It just reminded me of my school Summer holidays:). Also, Now I have FULL time for my Kid - My kid is going to daycare from age of 1, now he is three and half , this break has given me time to get closer to him and to know more about him and actually I am contented with this chance to be with him all the time in his early age of life at least for some months :) . All got possible now for which I used to not get time or It just just not reminded to me during my busy daily work-life schedule.

I am not saying I don't want to do job or go back to work but point here is little break from work rejuvenate you. It cleans up your mind and reminds you WHO YOU ARE? and WHERE ARE YOU? at the age of your life. So, I hope after this when I get back to work I can still take out sometime from me for myself and for my interests.

At last, All I would say - Have break, Rejuvenate yourself, Then Go back to Work - You will found new YOU :)

Friends like family.. friends in Family

Morning 9:15, Sitting here in shade in Infosys campus, around beautiful greenery, fresh wind, pleasant bird's voice for music, Today I fetch out sometime from highly busy life these days, to put down my feelings about one beautiful thought which actually is an emergence of an 'SMS' from my friend few days back..

'Friends like a family and Friends in family'- Yes, I believe now that If you have a friends who listen your problems at home, console you when you depress, direct you when u lost, encourage u when you need motivation - they become like a Family.  Similarly if your Family behaves like your friends , your life becomes very very beautiful... they understands your decision, respect your feelings, open the ways ahead to achieve what your dreams, ready to support in bad times, soothe you in your sickness, with their smile everyday your day start become beautiful. Both the relationships in your life can make u invincible over all the problems of life.. isn't :)

I hope everybody person have these valuable relationships in their life to share all the achievements and happiness in his life. my wishes:)

New year for new comer...

It's Feb of year 2011, and I am sitting here in my new office,Mindtree in Bangalore. Today's free time reminded me write the new blog for welcoming the new comer in our new house :). Yes, I am going to enter new phase of this life of being mother.ya, I will be Momy very soon and I am very excited about it.:)

This feeling is ofcourse different, it brings lot's of joy n smiles in life as well as lot of resposibility, dedication and planning for everything in future.I am feeling more mature and planned now. I recently came back from United states after approximately an year.. Then after a months gap in career and being carry a baby, I was in delima whether I should join the new job now or should wait for another year after the baby. So many people suggested not doing job n so many reasons for what should I do or not. But somehow I am thankful to my both the families, they understand me and respect my decisions about me in my life.. With their support, I have decided to join my career back in my 5th month of pregnancy and I would give BIG credit of this to my lil one inside my womb to support me in this decision..He/She always responded me in good and positive manner.luv u sweetheart..

One biggest feeling that always helped me in my decision is what came from my innerself "Ricky, you are not a person who let the success decide when to bear responsibilities but alongwith the responsibilities you will get success that should be your mission!!" It's give me immense strength to think about my future with new responsiblities going to add :)

I am very Thankful to God then my Parents,Hubby and my sweetu the most...:) to support me in this transforming walk of Life... I hope it remain beautiful as it is always.

Your Momy waiting for you to hold you in my hand,Baby.. see you soon. tke care :)

When I see India from States....

Today When I am far from my country I can now differentiate and find the major difference by my point of view between the two. I have not been any other country except America so here's my big big differences in these two countries only...

Tourism or more challenging n beautiful tourism I feel is in India only... I went to visit number of places in America, I found everything same except that place i.e same type of people, same food - pizza burger everywhere ;) same language,if you know English you can anywhere BUT in India to visit one state from another make you feel as if you are in another country... difference in culture,language, customs will definite make you to explore more about the place and nearby..

Weather: It's either toooo cold here or too hot.. greenery is everywhere but that smell of wet mud of India is no where.. If you wake up early morning too you will not find cold wind which travels in India even in morning of summers too.. I am in my house remain surrounded with trees and greenery all around but still that cool breeze never touched my nose and made me to take deep breathe.

These were the most likely n lovely points I could for my India.... and ofcourse there's are bads too I can see from here.. first thing is ofcourse it's population and no proper education. I am not talking about Engineering or MBBS degrees. These degrees are quite easy get these days but the education of basic understanding, morals, humanity, trueness is really missing.

Honesty: In America, the best thing is you can trust on what and whom you are dealing with.People here themselves afraid before doing any wrong act to anything around either person or thing.

Driving Rules: Oh God,It's really amazing.. . I am sure most of the people in India die every year because of their rash driving and don't follow rules themselves but here in US every single person who want to drive will have to give real driving/road test, in which he will have to pass else no License, unlike India anyone can take license without even appearing in front of license giver. Rules are just awesome(pedestrian always comes first) n you know all Indians scare a lot while driving here..he he ;)

Cleanliness: YES, everybody knows it n it's really true and people do take care of it a lot............ Government has strict rule to keep the country clean.I hope Indians can understand to keep this country clean as they keep their home...

I think honesty and driving habits can be develop in India, only if people educate themselves and their children about basic ethics on road, for country, it's assets, for each other BUT the diversity in Indian cultures,it's beauty in mountains,valleys with that sweet fragrance blows in morning with wind alongwith the sound of those birds... I think can never come to United States.........

I hope some day India can overcome where it lacks behind...........

Dependency of an Independent WomenToday I found me in a position to write on this topic as now I have faced both the situation in my life.Yes,when it comes the dependency of a women who used to remain Independent sometime back, the difference in her life can be easily seen.. As I am already facing such situation, I have explored few points on this topic and in my opinion I found difference in her life by following ways..

Independent women:Wake up in morning and after done with all home stuff,get ready to indulge into outside world of learning and gaining knowledge.
Dependent Women:Wake up but for just cooking food on stove and say byee with a sweet smile to her partner....;)

Ind Women: Daily get a chance to see herself in a mirror closely and don't forget to fill her eyes either by 'Kajal' or smile.
Dep women: Eyes fill up with burner fumes for sure.;)

Ind Women: At work-she make good friends,communicate to people who mostly increase her knowledge of her area of interest and her improvement Area.
Dep Women: She also makes friends and communicate to people but knowledge she gains is about 'how to make Shahi Paneer and Dhokla at home?' ;)

Ind Women: At work, for sometime she just live new and different life, far from gossips about relative's good or bad.
Dep Women: Definitely get bores with such gossips.What's going hot out there.someone please tell me,question remain deep inside heart somewhere;)

Ind women: Major thing,Freedom of living life by her own ways, spend money freely or restrictively but by her own wish. At least she don't need to give any explanations to anyone.
Dep Women: Whether needed or not, feels restricted herself somewhere. How good the person who is fulfilling all her needs but somewhere she finds an empty the place for work in her life and want fulfill her wishes independently as before:):)

I believe, all stuff which dependent women do, an Independent women also do but the sense of being herself just gets complete if she is working too. Independent the word itself says, In+Dependent, So why not the Women should remain Independent and complete herself.

All the best for all Women who got dependent for some reason and have same feelings. I wish them to get back to work soon.

Cheers:)

"DISTANCE in 'love" in DISTANCE'
After so long,I am again back to my blog,ya I am married now and life has been added with new challenges and discoveries now. For me it started somewhat differently,Somehow We have a distance of miles just after marriage.This distance of miles actually gave me an thought to put on my blog this time :)

Usually,When we get apart from our love, the distance works in two ways.It can either increase the love towards your partner or can decrease as well. Inspite of being so far from each other If you could fill the heart and mind of your partner with full of trust with love and feelings of missing each other, I think this distance can be a discovery of new love.. On the other hand if you don't communicate with each other properly or you forget to give the feeling of neediness of each other, this same distance can create the communication gap and decreases the existing love too.

It's upon us how we deal with the situations, with my experience I would just say If you walk together-hold the hand with full dedication & trust as well as If you talk with each other,either less or more- but do it with full dedication &. The single "Hi" can either shorten the distance or may increase it,thing that matters is how lovingly it has been communicated ;)

Well, I welcome this new year in my new Life, with full of hopes and smile towards it. I hope I will with my love soon for step-in to this new year for facing the life together... :)

"Happy New Year'2010" to all of you to who shares my feeling via this blog :)

Nayii Rahein...
It has been months I got engaged with the person I never knew before and few days are left in I will be married, but this time I know much about him and am happy for my marriage and ready too.;)

In one of my previous blog where I have mentioned how worry I used to get when anybody starts talking to me about marriage n all.But for this person I don't know how all things got set itself that I couldn't back out:). Now,I really believe that marriages are made in heaven.:) .And yes,Now I am happy and contented too with what God has gifted me.

Inspite of having this nice courtship period, when I look and observe our new phase of life which is yet to start, make my feeling mixed about it. Sometimes.. I feel happy for this new phase of life considering it will be cool & rosy all the time sometimes I get worry about the new challenges and responsibilities that will come across to me. I will have to follow those whether I want to or not. It's really double-faced phase of life.Isn't??

These days when I see new couples around me, they seems happiest as if they have never been so happy before. I also looked at the old couples with their childs. In both the case I try to find me but no.. I don't want to be any of that kind. In first case it seems like you are over reacting on what you got but actually there's nothing new to the world and in other case I seems like you even don't know how to keep that simple smile daily which sometimes back, used to made someone's day brighter.. both expressions give me false image of life after marriage.. n If you look at the lady after the years of marriage she doesn't seems graceful or relaxed now.

I am understanding the truth of life, and I am ready to face it but Is this marriage that heavy that we don't carry ourself the way we want, the way we want to laugh, the way we want to talk. I am learning from these faces how can I improve such faces for me in future. Let's see how it goes.;)

Control Population and Education

This blog is an emergence of thought raised in my mind today morning while traveling in the train, overcrowded with peoples. When the train arrived at station, peoples around me rushed for catching train. To be in QUEUE.. ah!! with NO sense of this, they were also not taking care of each other whether there is any small child, lady carrying a child or any older people. Everybody was just wanted to get inside the train by hook or crook. All were pushing irregularly to person in front of him/her. As a result of this, one family have lost two of their children too at the station. I don't know how many people who already have been inside the train had this sense or not, that for whom catching train was important first or If we all have been in queue then it may has been more easy to be inside train.

I was seeing every other person educated, if not educated then mature, if not mature then also there are basic ethics which we all keep deep inside of us. I don't understand when and where these ethics comes out of them, Is in Home only??OR Is this earth not their home??

This scene of train made me to realize that If there's anything in the country which needs a great lookafter is controlling population first then controlling Education Ofcourse.. Both the things for our country, for everyone, for everything around on earth. I wish, If we and our Government can do something for controlling population the way it should lessen, and then control Education the way it should increase among peoples for making them civilized in any situation.

I talked about the scene of train I faced in the morning but when I broaden my view how people travel in public transports, deals with unknown peoples.. really made my view stronger. I don't know when we will see such a change but Can we try to do something about it???

User-Friendly Interface...of Human

Confused na.. Ok, think of any product we choose for buying from market.What thing attracts us a lot.. I know most common answer will be.. it's looks,it easy functionality.. i.e User-friendly interface. I think, this is a great reason behind liking and addiction for any particular product in the market..

But how about HUMANS?? for a sec..just imagine any person, you feel great about whom because he is full of power,knowledge but very simple and friendly..Hows it?? The feeling you will get this time is for what, my this writeup is all about.. :)

Only few days before.. I realized,it's actually true for the peoples even. Any person who is having extreme power, money, knowledge but keeps strict attitude too, we hesitate or sometimes don't like to talk to him or not even try to praise him because we always like the peoples who not only knows, how to fly in the sky but also understand how to walk on the Earth.

I am remembering, how in school n college, I used to scared of, for asking questions to strict teachers.. oh God!! even I remember, when I have started the career.. that first year of career you just come out of school and every other colleague looks like very intelligent enough to make you feel.. mmmm. There you can only increase your knowledge if you find someone very knowledgeable but friendly too, to whom you can ask anything without any hesitation..isn't?? :)

..that User-friendly interface(interior - face), is always been appreciated. I always feel lucky when I find someone with this feature. What do you say...?? :)

FIRST IMPRESSION is the last impression... Is it so??

Phrase, we all must have heard and speak lot of time. I too, was used to use it as a phrase only BUT one of sudden it became a question for me, a time before. I had no answer of this question that time but today, I personally modified it for myself and I feel you will also be agree.

As my favorite pastime is observing people, during this process of juggling ;-) I realized that first impression remains true(as of first time), only with the people you meet first and last time or very few times.. But with the people you interact daily or those who shares things in life with you, it changes to sometime to very good and sometimes.... :)

And, when you finally get apart, the feeling we keep at that very moment, is what We always discuss with other about that particular person in future. Isn't??

So, I modified the phrase like: FIRST IMPRESSION is the last impression,only for the people we meet first and last time though it can be long lasting.. :)